"If you're offered a seat on a rocket ship, get on, don't ask what seat." - Sheryl SandbergWhich leads me to a related point:
"If you're on a poorly maintained, poorly fueled, poorly aimed rocket ship... for goodness' sake GET OFF RIGHT NOW." - Me
If this happens while you're taking off, flee! (Image Credit: NASA) |
Don't get me wrong, I'm a believer in intelligent, well-educated women. I enjoy what I learned in graduate school, and I'm looking forward to applying it in the future. But I was sacrificing my health to remain at that job, and I only have one body to live in.
I don't want to get personal about what went wrong. I'm trying to forgive those involved. But I can't work somewhere where creative, hard-working, prolific people are constantly put down (even though it's unintentional).
Engineering ladies, if this describes you, find a different job before you burn out! It's really hard to wait for your self-worth and motivation to grow back.